I heard L3 (4 yrs) screaming in the DR in the morning. I came down to find him bucked into his booster seat (unusual) and very upset.

L1 (8yrs): Don’t worry, he just didn’t want to sit in his seat, so I put him in it and buckled him in and now he’s upset, so I brought him the “how big is your problem” calm down card. I told him he has a small problem and a big response.

L1 to L3: Now. You need a calm down tool to help you calm down. Pulls out calm down flip ring. Do you want to do an animal walk? Or draw a picture?